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Single Dating Advice – How to Flirt

27th October, 2009 - Posted by Mohawk Mike - No Comments

by Joseph Matthews

If you’re in the following situation, this article will be the best single dating advice you can get:

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts? We’ve all been there! Well, there is a reason that happened.

More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.

Understand:  Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly. Why is flirting essential? The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don’t have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction.  And if there’s no attraction, what does that make you? Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly. Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject. This is called “mixed signals.” You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Here are some tips to correct the common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:

Single Dating Advice – Tip #1:  Be subtle with your words. (Not too obvious).

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him on the spot.

And if you haven’t laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.  Most girls are shy when it comes to meeting new people. Hot girls have tons of guys swirling around as it is. So, stand out.

Single Dating Advice – Tip #2: Don’t be TOO subtle.

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

Single Dating Advice – Tip #3:  Rely on Actions Instead of Words

A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff.  Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.

Single Dating Advice – Tip#4:  Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down. You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea.  So what’s the right way to start flirting? Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

Here is an example, if you are in a bar and the woman with you orders a drink and then asks if you want something, you can jokingly say, “You are not trying to get me intoxicated so you can take advantage of me, are you?” Say all this of course, with a wink and a nod. This communicates your interest, it’s insinuating sex, but you’re not coming outright and saying it.  It’s implied, and it’s fun, and its lighthearted.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, “Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don’t do that on the first date.” See how that works? Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.

As you do this, you’ll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build.  And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION. And that is when the real fun begins.

For more single dating advice including detailed information on how to flirt as well as lines that you can start with, check out Art of Approaching by Joseph Matthews.

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It’s a well known fact that 10 percent of the males enjoy 90 percent of the success with women. The other males have to fight for the scraps. The main goal of Joseph Matthews, the author of The Art Of Approaching, is to put you into that 10 percent. His book is 350+ pages of solid dating advice. Read review.

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