The Truth About How To Pickup Women

16th November, 2009 - Posted by Mohawk Mike - No Comments

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Most people think that to pickup women you have to know what to say or what to do. It really has nothing to do with that. Your actions and your words alone have very minor impacts when it comes to generating attraction. What generates the attraction is the place where those words are coming from.

Think about it…if someone is a NERD and he has the coolest lines in the world….he’s still a nerd. The lines won’t work because it’s coming from the wrong place. He’ll probably fumble up the delivery and be all nervous. On the other hand. If you’re a COOL GUY and you say something dumb…you’re still a cool guy. People will still like you and will generally respond positively.

Picking up women is a learned behavior. The fact of the matter is that some guys were brought up in a loving family which gave them lots of confidence. However for most guys (myself included) that wasn’t the case. Maybe there was some bully who lived on your street and that caused you to have lower self confidence growing up. Or maybe your parents would put you down. These things are completely based on chance and they affect how we pickup women. We have to work with what we’re given.

Learning how to pickup women is about coming from the right place. You have to become an alpha male and exude confidence. The lines are really secondary. The lines give you confidence and women respond to that confidence, not the words. Women are about 13x more socially perceptive than men. They know if you’re an alpha male before you even approach them. So instead of running around trying to perfect the latest lines, become an alpha male. Become a person who’s naturally good with women, so you never have to rely on lines and techniques.

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A lot of guys get into pick up the wrong way. They learn the lines and techniques but don’t learn what’s BEHIND those lines. This causes them to run around in circles for years without any serious improvements. A line such as: “Hey I have to go in a second but wanted to ask you…” is just to demonstrate that you have friends and places to go. If you actually have friends and places to go in real life, you don’t even need to use that line. The girls will already know.

This is why the books on dating that I recommend are PRINCIPLE BASED. The number 1 rated book is the Double Your Dating Ebook by David DeAngelo. In the book he provides a perfect mixture of: principles and techniques to get you started. Techniques aren’t always a bad thing. They are good training wheels. Eventually though, you have to ride on your own. When you learn how to do that, you’ll never need training wheels again to pickup women.

Obviously I’m biased because I think that the books on dating I chose are the best… But a general rule of thumb is to focus on the principle centered books. Good books teach you how to become an alpha male and not just a heap of lines.